YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO
THE RENEWAL OF VOWS OF
ELMER & SHIRLEY
LISTEN TO OUR WEDDING SONG
Welcome to our website
We are so excited to celebrate this special milestone with you! Here, you’ll find all the details about our renewal of vows — including venue locations, event schedules, and more.
Please explore the site, RSVP, and take a moment to look back on our journey together. We can’t wait to celebrate our love once again and create new memories that will last a lifetime.
Please use our official hashtags
#ElmerShirleyrenewed
Our Love Story
We often smile when we think of how it all began. I was just 16, and she was only 15. We were young, carefree, and had no idea that life was about to change. At a party, a common friend introduced us. It seemed so ordinary at the time, but looking back, that moment was the beginning of everything.
From that simple introduction grew a friendship, and from that friendship, love. We were young, but we were sure of how we felt. And so, in 1981, we took a leap of faith and got married. We didn’t know what the years ahead would bring, but we knew we wanted to face them together.
Life tested us with ups and downs, but through every challenge, our love held us steady. God blessed us with five children, who became our greatest source of pride. In time, our family grew even larger—with sons- and daughters-in-law and eight (soon-to-be nine) wonderful grandchildren who now bring so much joy to our lives.
Now, 44 years later, we look back with gratitude. From two teenagers introduced at a party to the family we have today, our journey has been far from perfect, but it has been beautiful. And as we renew our vows, we remind ourselves—and our children—that true love is not just about finding each other, but about choosing each other every single day
The Entourage
Principal Sponsors
Rev. Rhoel Ortal
Parents of the Groom
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Name
Parents of the Bride
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Name
Principal Sponsors
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Best Man
Mr. William A. Viernes
Matron of Honor
Mrs. Jane Nove A. Paco
Groomsmen
Mr. Guillermo Paco
Mr. Elorde A. Agbayani
Mr. Isagani A. Agbayani
Mr. Randy A. Agbayani
Engr. Louise Elmer A. Viernes
Mr. Adrian C Carlos
Mr. Argie Pagatpat
Bridesmaids
Mrs. Ruthie Agbayani
Mrs. Evelyn L. Agbayani
Ms. Mae Thrina Viernes
Mrs. Kaara Shae Viernes-Carlos
Mrs. Theo Charizze Shaira V. Pagatpat
Candle Sponsors
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Veil Sponsors
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Cord Sponsors
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Bible Bearer
Sage Adriel Gavin V. Carlos
Coin Bearer
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Ring Bearer
Keene Sebastian V. Carlos
Flower Girls
Arthen Ellis V. Pagatpat
Malik Ciel V. Pagatpat
Dress Code
GUESTS:
FORMAL ATTIre
Ninong:
Suit/ Barong Tagalong
Ninang: Long Gown
We kindly request that all guests honor the dress code by avoiding overly casual attire such as polo shirts, slippers, denim, and jeans. Please avoid mini dresses.
Please adhere to the specified dress code and color motif provided. Dressing accordingly is deeply appreciated, as it will contribute to the elegance and harmony of our celebration.
We look forward to seeing you in your finest that complements our chosen theme!
Gift Guide
With all that we have, we’ve been truly blessed. Your presence and prayers are all that we request. But if you are thinking of giving a gift to help us on our way, a monetary gift for our future is a delightful blessing.
Adult-Only Event
As much as we love kids, we want the event to be for adults only. The only children attending are those who are part of the entourage.
We encourage you to use this day to have fun and enjoy.
Thank you for understanding.
The Venue
Frequently Asked Questions
RSVP
We are excited to celebrate our Wedding with our closest families and friends!
The favor of a response is requested before
October 4, 2025. Thank you!