OUR DAY

ELMER & SHIRLEY

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Welcome to our website


We are so excited to celebrate this special milestone with you! Here, you’ll find all the details about our renewal of vows — including venue locations, event schedules, and more.


Please explore the site, RSVP, and take a moment to look back on our journey together. We can’t wait to celebrate our love once again and create new memories that will last a lifetime.


Please use our official hashtags

#ElmerShirleyrenewed

Our Love Story

We often smile when we think of how it all began. I was just 16, and she was only 15. We were young, carefree, and had no idea that life was about to change. At a party, a common friend introduced us. It seemed so ordinary at the time, but looking back, that moment was the beginning of everything.


From that simple introduction grew a friendship, and from that friendship, love. We were young, but we were sure of how we felt. And so, in 1981, we took a leap of faith and got married. We didn’t know what the years ahead would bring, but we knew we wanted to face them together.


Life tested us with ups and downs, but through every challenge, our love held us steady. God blessed us with five children, who became our greatest source of pride. In time, our family grew even larger—with sons- and daughters-in-law and eight (soon-to-be nine) wonderful grandchildren who now bring so much joy to our lives.


Now, 44 years later, we look back with gratitude. From two teenagers introduced at a party to the family we have today, our journey has been far from perfect, but it has been beautiful. And as we renew our vows, we remind ourselves—and our children—that true love is not just about finding each other, but about choosing each other every single day

Dress Code

GUESTS:

FORMAL ATTIre
Male:  Suit/ Barong Tagalong

Female:  Long Gown

We kindly request that all guests honor the dress code by avoiding overly casual attire such as polo shirts, slippers, denim, and jeans. Please avoid mini dresses.


Please adhere to the specified dress code and color motif provided. Dressing accordingly is deeply appreciated, as it will contribute to the elegance and harmony of our celebration.


We look forward to seeing you in your finest that complements our chosen theme!

Gift  Guide

With all that we have, we’ve been truly blessed. Your presence and prayers are all that we request. But if you are thinking of giving a gift to help us on our way, a monetary gift for our future is a delightful blessing.

Adult-Only Event

As much as we love kids, we want the event to be for adults only. The only children attending are those who are part of the entourage.


We encourage you to use this day to have fun and enjoy.


Thank you for understanding.

The  Venue

Ceremony & Reception

Las Colinas, Paoay, Ilocos Norte

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Frequently Asked  Questions

  • RSVP

    We are so excited to celebrate our wedding day with you! To ensure an intimate and enjoyable experience for everyone, we have reserved seating for each guest individually. We kindly ask that each invitation is for ONE (1) PERSON ONLY.


    Please RSVP by November 9, 2025 to confirm your attendance.


    We can’t wait to share this unforgettable day with you!

  • Is there parking space available for my car?

    Yes, there is parking available for everyone at the venue. However, please take note that it is first come, first served basis, so you might not want to be late.

  • When is the appropriate time to leave?

    This event took us months to plan, and we want to celebrate it with the people that are very dear to our hearts. We want you to have fun! Celebrate with us until the end of the program!

  • How can I help the couple have a great time during their wedding?

    • Pray with us for favorable weather and the continuous blessings of our Lord as we enter this new chapter of our lives as husband and wife.
    • RSVP as soon as your schedule is cleared.
    • Dress appropriately and follow our wedding motif.
    • Be on time.
    • Follow the seating arrangement in the reception.
    • Stay until the end of the program.
    • Join the activities and enjoy!

  • May I invite a "PLUS ONE" to the event?

    As much as we would love to accommodate all our friends and family, we have a limited number of guests.


    Please understand that this event is strictly by invitation only. Kindly check our invitation to know the number of seats allotted for you. Guests not found on the guestlist provided will not be allowed to enter.

  • May I invite kids to the wedding?

    Our wedding will be an adults-only celebration. Only children who are part of the entourage will be attending. We hope you can still join us for this special day!

  • Can I sit anywhere at the reception?

    It took us a lot of effort and discussion to finish the seating arrangement, which is planned for everyone's convenience and preference, but there is no need to worry! You'll surely be seated with your friends or people that you have same interest with.


    Our coordinators will gladly assist you in finding your designated seat after registration. Feel free to ask them for assistance and they will gladly help you.

  • Am I allowed to take pictures and/or videos during the ceremony?

    We request everyone to keep the ceremony camera-free. While our I DOs are unplugged, our reception is not and definitely as a couple who loves pictures, you’ll get tons of options to take your pictures. We prepared for this event wholeheartedly.


    Please use our official hashtag: #ElmerShirleyrenewed

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We are excited to celebrate our Wedding with our closest families and friends!


The favor of a response is requested before

November 9, 2025. Thank you!

ELMER AND SHIRLEY | RSVP